David and Mary encourage farming community to support Marie Curie’s Twilight Walk

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President of the Ulster Farmers’ Union, David Brown, is encouraging members to support the work of Marie Curie by taking part in the charity’s twilight walk.

Marie Curie’s Twilight Walk will be held on Friday 30 September at Barnett Demesne, Belfast, where people will come together to walk in memory of loved ones and in support of the leading end of life care provider.

As well as being a long-time admirer of the caring service that Marie Curie provides throughout Northern Ireland, David has another special reason for asking members to support this worthy cause.

Mary, his wife of 30 years, has been working for Marie Curie as a community nurse for the past three years, visiting homes in the west of the province to provide end of life care for people with terminal illness.

UFU president David Brown and his wife Mary, who is a Marie Curie Nurse, at the family farm in Florencecourt. The couple are encouraging people to take part in Marie Curie’s Twilight Walk. Picture: John McVittyUFU president David Brown and his wife Mary, who is a Marie Curie Nurse, at the family farm in Florencecourt. The couple are encouraging people to take part in Marie Curie’s Twilight Walk. Picture: John McVitty
UFU president David Brown and his wife Mary, who is a Marie Curie Nurse, at the family farm in Florencecourt. The couple are encouraging people to take part in Marie Curie’s Twilight Walk. Picture: John McVitty

David is as proud of her as she is of him and his new role in representing farmers as they face challenging times ahead.

The Co Fermanagh man commented: “Sometimes I will attend a funeral in the community and someone will come over to me to say hello and shake my hand and thank me for everything that Mary has done for their loved one as a Marie Curie Nurse and I haven’t even been aware that Mary had even been calling at that home.

“I never have a clue who she’s attending to. She is so discreet and so dedicated that she just gets up and goes out, doing great work and helping people and their relatives in their final days.”

David is the fifth-generation of his family to farm at his suckler beef and sheep enterprise in Florencecourt.

UFU president David Brown and his wife Mary, who is a Marie Curie Nurse, at the family farm in Florencecourt. The couple are encouraging people to take part in Marie Curie’s Twilight Walk. Picture: John McVittyUFU president David Brown and his wife Mary, who is a Marie Curie Nurse, at the family farm in Florencecourt. The couple are encouraging people to take part in Marie Curie’s Twilight Walk. Picture: John McVitty
UFU president David Brown and his wife Mary, who is a Marie Curie Nurse, at the family farm in Florencecourt. The couple are encouraging people to take part in Marie Curie’s Twilight Walk. Picture: John McVitty

The day-to-day running of the farm has come second to the demands of his UFU presidency, which takes up much of his week from Monday to Saturday.

David admits he could not have taken up his position, representing over 11,500 farming families, without the support of his own family, including Mary, his four grown-up children and one grandchild.

He continued: “When I stood for the position of deputy president in 2018, I remember saying that my family did not get a vote but they certainly had a veto.

“Had they not been supportive, I certainly would not have let my name go forward. I’ve been essentially a part-time farmer since I took over, as some of the jobs still wait for me to do on Saturday.”

His support of Marie Curie means that thousands of pounds have already been raised at various UFU events across Northern Ireland, with the big yellow collection buckets being generously handed out amongst members.

Mary works two nights a week, providing Marie Curie overnight visits to people’s homes or in Marie Curie’s Rapid Response service, which responses to calls for nursing assistance each night and all day at weekends and over bank holidays.

After 24 years of working in a local nursing home, Mary wanted a change of direction and a new challenge.

She began to work one night a week for Marie Curie while maintaining her nursing home job but, within six months, she worked exclusively for Marie Curie.

Mary explained: “What I enjoy most is knowing that I have been a small part of the team within the community that has enabled the family to keep their loved one at home if that was their last wish.

“It’s supporting family at a time when they are exhausted, they are so appreciative and trusting when they leave them in our care.

“Marie Curie is a charity that is highly regarded in the community, it’s something that I’m very aware of every time I put on my uniform.

“In Fermanagh and Omagh area, we have a great team of Marie Curie nurses and health care assistants who support each other.

“Confidentiality is very important to me as a nurse. If I am caring from someone from my local community who knows me, I usually try to find an opportunity to tell them that my family don’t actually know where I am overnight.

“I suppose firstly I am a Marie Curie nurse coming into their home, whether they know me or not does not affect the care I give.”

A typical night for Mary on Rapid Response lasts from 10pm to 8am in the Western Urgent Care (WUC) Enniskillen base within South West Acute Hospital.

Calls are triaged and allocated to Marie Curie if they involve palliative care issues such as symptom management, end of life care, catheter problems or care required after an expected death.

“Our Rapid Response care help prevent unnecessary hospital admissions, ensuring that people are able to spend their final days in the place they want to be, whether it’s their own home or a residential care home,” she said.

“Also, if someone has a health care assistant with them overnight, we may be called out to give breakthrough medication.

“We cover a large geographical area, all of Fermanagh and part of Tyrone extending to Castlederg and Carrickmore areas.

“For these visits we are accompanied by a driver from WUC. At the weekend there are daytime shifts of 8am to 4pm and 4pm to 10pm.

“On these shifts, the community nursing team will often link in and request a visit to a patient of theirs also.”

It’s this dedication to the community that has most impressed David, long before Mary began to work for Marie Curie.

He added: “For rural communities in particular, the sense of vulnerability families experience at that time when people are facing their last days exists, not just for the patient, but also for their families.

“There’s plenty of folk who live on their own and may not have family to visit them or have anyone close at hand. Marie Curie was there for a member of my wider family who died and it always struck me how good that service was.

“Generally, in the farming community, there’s a real appreciation of that service when people are at the end of their days and need that support.

“I see so many tributes in death notices asking for donations to Marie Curie. The nurses may have only been with that family for a couple or three nights, or even one night, but the significance of that help and support is very much etched on peoples’ collective memories, in that Marie Curie were there for them when they most needed them.”

The couple are encouraging the farming community to turn out to support Marie Curie’s Twilight Walk later this month.

Alternatively, people can organise their own local walk to raise money.

Every £180 raised covers a night of care either in the community or at the Belfast hospice.

To further information about Marie Curie’s Twilight Walk, visit https://www.mariecurie.org.uk/get-involved/charity-events/hiking/twilight-walk-northern-ireland

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